does that mean that they don’t love me?

No, people who are grieving are often blocked by pain and the deceased has to find another way to contact them, through a friend etc. Sometimes it’s just a matter of time. As I describe in my book “Don’t Kiss Them Good-Bye” when I lost my own dad even being a medium didn’t allow me to see him. It took me two years before I could hear him.

Don’t force it and be sure to tell the deceased what you need from them not as a challenge but from your heart. It also has to be within their power, like if you requested a “visit” from them in a dream. This is in their power, every night go to sleep and let them know that your heart is open to them and that you’ll patiently await their appearance. If you ask them to come back to life then that wouldn’t be in their power. So take it at your own pace and you’ll find that many prayers are answered.